Have you ever had such high expectations of what you dream about will happen but the other person just doesn't read your mind adequately - or not at all?
Thats what we just went through. Both Andre and I had ideas and dreams of our reunion and how it was going to be ideal for us but we didn't meet each others expectations very well. So on Day 3 of our time together we were fighting.
I think we have become accustomed to being apart and just having conversations like friends on the phone. We both had a hard time sleeping together because after 4 months of being apart, you just don't adapt quickly.
We finally after much "discussion" (code for fighting) realized how we both wanted so much but it just wasn't realistic.
Marriage is hard enough when you are living together and doing things together but a marriage by vacation is next to impossible. I have no idea how military marriages do it.
After much discussion and unless things change drastically, it looks like we will be living apart for almost a year. AHHHHHHH!!
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